The Fifteen-Foot Revolution
Why Your Greatest Impact Happens Close to Home
Stop caring about everything.
I know that sounds callous, maybe even sociopathic. But hear me out.
You're exhausting yourself caring deeply about climate change, global injustice, and crises on the other side of the world while the person serving your coffee remains invisible. You post passionately about saving the planet while your own workspace stays cluttered and your relationships grow stale from inattention.
This is our modern paradox: we've been trained to extend our emotional energy everywhere except where it can actually make a difference.
I call this proximity-based living - the radical act of caring deeply about your immediate sphere of influence first.
Your 15-foot radius.
The people, spaces, and interactions you can actually touch.
The Seductive Lie of Global Care
Caring about distant problems feels noble because it costs us nothing. You can rage about injustice halfway across the globe, share urgent posts about causes you'll never directly impact, and wear your concern like a badge of virtue.
Meanwhile, your neighbour remains a stranger and the person in front of you gets half your attention.
"We're so self-important. So arrogant. Everybody's going to save something now. Save the trees, save the bees, save the whales, save the snails. And the supreme arrogance? Save the planet! Are you kidding me?" - George Carlin
There's something intoxicating about global concern - it makes us feel expansive, morally superior, connected to something bigger. But it's virtue without the mess of actual virtue.
The shopkeeper you ignore, the family member you half-listen to, the cluttered environment you walk through daily - these demand presence.
They require the unglamorous work of being attentive to what's right in front of you.
There's no audience for this kind of care, no social media validation for saying good morning with genuine warmth.
The Ripple Starts Here
Think of influence like dropping a stone in still water.
The ripples begin where the stone touches
They expand outward naturally
When we skip the first ripple, we create nothing but noise
When we skip the first ripple - our immediate environment - and try to create waves at the pond's edge, we create nothing but noise.
I've watched people exhaust themselves caring about everything except what they can actually touch. Their 15-foot radius becomes a wasteland of neglect while they perform concern for abstractions.
But when someone tends their immediate sphere with genuine attention - treating every interaction as meaningful, maintaining their space with care, showing up fully for the people within arm's reach - something remarkable happens. That attention becomes contagious.
"You must be the change you wish to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi
The world doesn't need more people who care about everything. It needs more people who care deeply about something specific, starting with what's closest to them. If everyone mastered their 15-foot radius, the accumulated effect would transform everything beyond it.
The Practical Revolution
This isn't about becoming small-minded or selfish.
It's about understanding where your actual power lives.
You can't control global supply chains, but you can control how you treat the delivery person
You can't single-handedly solve climate change, but you can maintain your immediate environment with respect and attention
You can't fix systemic injustice overnight, but you can listen fully to the person in front of you
Proximity-based living means choosing:
Depth over breadth
Presence over performance
Local impact over global guilt
It means recognising that the most profound changes often happen in the smallest spaces - in how you listen to your partner, acknowledge strangers, and tend to your immediate surroundings.
"The best way to take care of the future is to take care of the present moment." - Thich Nhat Hanh
The question isn't whether you care about the world. It's whether you care enough to start where you are.
Thank you for your time and attention
— Michael
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I couldn't agree more. Obviously we need some people to extend their reach but for people who do and feel utterly helpless still, they maybe don't realise the great impact they could have on people closer to home. Bring it home and slowly expand out.
I love this man. We've been conditioned to focus our attention outwards on problems that have nothing to do with us. The truth is that worrying about what's going on in the world is just stealing your energy and is serving absolutely no one. Glad you brought this up, great post 🙌